40 days of prayer for your future husband ... Day 19 (Confidence)

40 days of prayer for your future husband ... Day 19

Confidence

The Lord calls all people to be humble, like you prayed for your future husband yesterday, but with the Holy Spirit living inside ever believer he also gives us the ability to be confident and expects us to live confidently in our calling and in our identity as children of God.  The Lord gives lays things before us that he expects for us to do and he gives us the confidence to fulfill each task and to share him with others if we will ask.  Today pray that your future husband would have the confidence in the Lord he needs to fulfill the journey that the Lord has laid before him each day and that he would confidently have an impact on the lives of those around him for Christ.

Heavenly Father-

I come before you knowing that as a daughter of Christ I can boldly enter your throne room and pray for things that I know are within your will.  Father I pray today that you would begin to build the confidence in my future husband and that his confidence would come completely from within you.  Father I pray that he would not be confident in himself and his own abilities' but in you and who you are.  Heavenly Father I pray today that you would love on the wonderful man of God that I know you will one day bring into my life and let him know that he is loved and appreciated. Build his confidence in you and show him all that he is in you.  Lord help him to lay aside any insecurities he has with truth of who you are and what you have created him to be and to accomplish.  Let him know that I love him, and that I am already praying for him too. I pray that he would walk tall in confidence on who you are and who you have called him to be.   Teach him the ways of you love and guard his heart from insecurity and low self -esteem.  Help him to know that he was fearfully and wonderfully made and that he has a purpose created specifically for him. Lord give him your strength and your confidence today, to be everything you have called him to be.

In Jesus Name I pray -

Amen

40 days of Prayer for your Future Husband ... Day 18 ( Humility)

40 days of Prayer for your Future Husband ... Day 18

 Humility

The characteristic of being humble is something that every woman should want to find in her future husband.  It means that his pride and arrogance would be decreased.  Humility is them  putting themselves after others and not having a poor attitude about it.  The ability for both partners in a marriage to humble themselves and put each other first will help resolve conflict and keep you from growing apart because one of the two refuses to bend.  Pray that just as you desire the Lord to teach you humility in your life that he would be doing the same in the life of your future husband.

 

 

Dear Heavenly Father-

  Lord today, I pray that you would teach my future husband how to be humble.  Lord you say that those who are first on earth will be least in the kingdom of Heaven.  Father,  I know one of the things that angers you most is when your children are prideful.  Teach him how to have a humble spirit.  Teach him to step back when others attack him.  Mold him into a Christ-like creation who sees his achievements as glorification of you.  Help him to speak peaceably with others, and to not lift himself above them as well. Father teach him to be a leader, who leads his family and his community and his job in a humble way.  Lord teach him that being humble does not mean that he is weak.  Give him humble strength through the power of the Holy Spirit so that he would be someone who would have an impact on the lives of others.  Teach him to put others first so that they would trust him for council and prayer for situations in their lives.  Father help him to see how it glorifies you for a man to have a humble heart and a willing spirit. Allow him to humble himself before you in prayer and to turn over the plans for his life into your hands, so that you can give him your best.

 

In Jesus Name I pray-

Amen.

 



40 Days of Prayer for your Future Husband.... Day 17 ( His Eyes)

40 Days of Prayer for your Future Husband.... Day 17

 

His Eyes

 

God created men to be visual creatures.  Men see with their eyes and are far more tempted by the things that they see with their eyes than women are.  For most men this is a huge area of struggle. Pray to day for not only strength in the face of temptation for your future husbands eyes and that he will be able to turn away from these things, but also pray for the good that his eyes can do to serve the Lord.

 

 

Dear Heavenly Father-

  Father I pray that you would guard the eyes of my future husband.  Father I pray that he would be conscious of the things that he sees.  I pray that his eyes would not look upon things that are not wholesome and of you.  I pray that you would allow the women around him to dress modestly and to not allow his eyes to be tempted.  I pray that he would not allow his eyes to allow things into his mind and body that do not honor and glorify you.

 

Father I pray that his eyes would be seeking your word and let them be focused on you.  Father I pray that you would help his eyes to be focused on your word and that you would not allow them to fail him as he reads. Father I pray that you would give him eyes to see you in the most clear way he ever has. 

 

Father I pray that you would give him eyes to see others.  Lord, allow him to see the needs others have and the ways that he can help him.  Lord give him open  eyes and a sensitive heart to situations.  Father give him the ability to see needs when no one else can.  Father give him the ability to see peoples souls and their need for the gospel.  Give him a vision for your kingdom.  Help him to see you everyday in the situations he faces and those he meets.

 

In Jesus Name,

 

Amen

 



Praying for your Future Husband ... Day 16 (Forgiveness)

Praying for your Future Husband ... Day 16

Forgiveness

Your husband's heart is a battle ground.  Each day circumstances will arise, and he will have the decision of how to handle the circumstances.  Pray that he will handle these things in Christ like Love with a gentle spirit, forgiveness and not letting bitterness grow in his heart.

Heavenly Father-

I pray that my future husband would have the strength to let any and every offence slide.  Lord I know that even though I am a believer, I am far from perfect and I know I of all people will make my future husband angry, I know as much as I don't want to and it would grieve my heart to know that I and others will sin against you and do things to hurt and anger him, I pray that you will help him to forgive. I pray that instead of clinging to his pain, he would cling to your love. I pray he wouldn't let any seed of bitterness take root within his heart, and when he feels overwhelmed Lord I pray that he would remember that he always has you by his side. Love him through the pain and teach him to forgive just as Christ forgave us when he died on the cross.  Lord I know there will be times that it will seem unbearable and impossible to forgive someone who has hurt him so deeply, in these moments, I pray that you would comfort his heart, remind him of all he has been forgiven of, and that you would give him the strength to forgive.

In Jesus Name- 

Amen  

40 days of Prayer for your Future Husband... Day 15... ( Integrity)

40 days of Prayer for your Future Husband... Day 15

Integrity

One of the greatest qualities a woman can desire in her future husband is that he be a man of integrity.  That he be the same man when no one else is looking that he is when he has an audience.  Pray that your future husband would be a man of honesty, dependability, and humility.  Pray that he is consistent in the way he lives his life in an upstanding way. Pray that the Lord would teach him daily how to be a man of Godly Character.

Heavenly Father-

I pray today that you would bless my future husband.  I pray that you  would be building him into a man of great integrity.  I know that building him that way will come with great trials and tribulations and I pray that you would comfort his heart and remind him daily why, but Lord don't ease the troubles, because they will grow him.  Lord bring these trials into his like so he can grow into the Godly man you have called him to be.  Help him to see the purpose of the trials and to keep from grumbling about the pain they cause.   Help him to walk upright in your ways, stand firm in your faith, and to make sure his feet are set firm.  Continue to strengthen his heart through your word.  I pray that he would choose integrity over popularity.  I pray that he would be a man of honesty and a man of his word.   Teach him to walk in integrity and encourage his spirit.  I thank you Lord for the man of God you are molding him into.

In Jesus Name-

Amen

Praying For Your Future Husband ... Day 14 ( Feel His Love)

Praying For Your Future Husband ... Day 14

Feel His Love

As future wives, we need to know that our love will never be enough for the man we will one day call our husband.  We will never be able to fulfill him or love him enough.  He has to be filled with the love of Christ first, and our love will be an overflowing on him. We can never expect to complete him, nor should we try.  Christ must make him whole first.

Heavenly Father-

                            Today I pray that you would help my future husband know and dwell in the love of Christ so that his joy might be full.  Father I pray that out of that abundance of love that you bestow on him that he would learn to love me and the others around him through that love.  It is only through being loved by you, we can ever learn to express that love to others.  Lord I pray that he might remain in you love and that I pray that his decisions would be guided by your holy spirit,  That he would be a walking, talking, breathing, example of your love for us.  Sometimes the only love be people see is in the light of the love of others lives.  Lord, I pray that he would be so consumed by you that his love would overflow onto others.  I pray that he would strive to replicate Christ's love for his bride with me, as I strive to love him and become the wife he needs to be.

                                                                             In Jesus Name,

                                                                                 Amen

40 days of Prayer for your Future Husband ... Day 13 ( His Health)

40 days of Prayer for your Future Husband ... Day 13

His Health

We all face physical challenges and sickness over our lifetime.  Take today to pray for the health of your future husband. Pray for strength in his body.  The Lord uses our physical bodies as well as our minds to allow us to work, to help others, and to serve him.  Pray for protection over your future husbands body and ask the Lord to strengthen him in times of weakness and heal him in times of injury and sickness.

Heavenly Father-

Today, I pray for protection over my future husband's health.  Father, I pray that you would guard his body and keep him lined up with you physically.  By your stripes we are healed.  Father I rebuke any sickness or physical struggle or pain.  father I pray that if these things are in his life I pray that you would guide the hands of the doctors.  I pray that you would help him to see that his body is a temple and help him to protect it.  I pray that you would protect his bones and joints so that he will be able to play with our children one day and have an active lifestyle.  I rebuke any sickness that would try to enter his body or mind.  I pray that you would give him wisdom and strength to make healthy decisions and follow through so he can have a healthy and long life.  Father I pray that you would keep him from danger and protect him from things that will harm him physically.

In Jesus Name I pray

Amen